Obando on following his dreams: ‘Not giving up and going the extra mile pays off in the end’

Felipe Obando may now be studying at the Keiser University College of Golf. But it wasn’t always a given that the sport would play an important part in his life. 

Obando has long been a passionate artist, and in fifth grade, he won an art contest that not only awarded him tickets to The Honda Classic – and meet and greets with PGA TOUR players like Russel Henley – but also a lifetime membership to First Tee – Florida Gold Coast. 

It was the first time Obando was exposed to golf, and First Tee introduced him to the coaches who could become important mentors, he said.  

“I could go on all day long about the insane and incredible opportunities that have been given to me by the First Tee,” he said. But one thing stands out from his time in the organization: the values it instilled. 

“Responsibly, honesty, integrity … were all words we learned as kids going to the First Tee which helped pave the way for the rest of my life,” he said. 

During his time as a First Tee participant, Obando attended national events like the Leadership Series in partnership with PGA TOUR Superstore, he played at storied courses, including The Breakers and The Bears Club, and he volunteered to help younger kids learn the game. 

Obando was so passionate about the sport that he teamed up with seven other First Tee participants to create the First Tee – Palm Beaches Teen Golf Association, which has evolved into a thriving organization. 

Obando has had to overcome challenges to get where he is today. He was born with a malformed right hand and has developed a golf swing that compliments his disability.  

“Grabbing a cup, throwing a ball, flipping a coin. Those were all things I could do with my normal left hand. But what about a sport that involves your two hands gripping something? Golf was probably the most challenging sport I ever had to learn, and it took me lots of time and practice to be able to get good contact,” he said. 

“I would say the most important thing throughout this process was never giving up, even if it meant putting myself in uncomfortable situations. I always (and still do) finished holes even if I wasn’t playing my best and wanted to pick up,” he explained. “Overcoming challenges for me was difficult, and it still is to this day, but not giving up and going the extra mile pays off in the end.” 

Obando always knew he wanted to attend college, and now his goal has become a reality. He received a four-year scholarship to attend Keiser University College of Golf where’s he’s studying golf management.  

“When it comes to post graduation, all I know is that I want to be involved in the best industry there is, the golf industry, whether it’s a head pro at a club, a coach, working for a company and many more of the thousands of careers there are in the golf world,” he said. 

He recently received his WR4GD pass, which makes him eligible to compete in tournaments like the USGA’s second U.S. Adaptive Open at Pinehurst this summer. Obando said he’s excited for what the future holds. 

“I have been practicing hard, focusing on my classes, focusing on my game and staying healthy,” he said. 

Coach Kelly on Building a Positive Self-Identity

Louis Kelly, First Tee – Greater Philadelphia alumni and now coach, has been with the chapter for longer than he can remember. Coach Kelly started when he was just 13 years old, graduating through the program in 2010.

Growing up with the First Tee – Greater Philadelphia chapter, Coach Kelly had been so positively impacted as a participant that he thought the only thing he could do was give back by returning to be a coach at the chapter in 2017.

“I love First Tee and I’ve been around it a long time now. Coaching my kids and being with influential people outside in the business world makes me reflect that I just love being able to bring a smile to people’s faces,” said Coach Kelly.

Coach Kelly focuses primarily on the in-school curriculum, along with coaching golf lessons for the participants to help them make their high school golf team. From there, Coach Kelly wishes to see his kids in the program graduate and go on to college where they can play for collegiate teams.  

In addition to the curriculum and golf lessons, coaches like Coach Kelly serve as a mentor for the community, helping to support participants along their educational and golf journey. Coach Kelly focuses on building a positive self-identity as a core characteristic in life.

“The mind believes in whatever you say about yourself, so we need to make it a good one,” said Coach Kelly.

“We need community, and as you know, First Tee has allowed young people to come in a safe space and be around positive coaches and other young people to build healthy habits and life skills.”

Jose Perez Makes an Impact at First Tee – Monterey County

Jose Perez grew up in Salinas, California where his family loved watching different professional sports, but primarily soccer because of their Hispanic heritage. It wasn’t until Jose was 8 years old when he was first introduced to the sport of golf – and instantly he fell in love. “In other sports, you have to rely on other people. With golf, you only have to rely on yourself and that’s why I love the game,” said Jose.

Jose became a participant at First Tee – Monterey County after being introduced to the game, loving the programs he took part in. So much so, after graduating from the program, he became a First Tee coach in 2013. “Monterey County had a summer program which I applied to that summer. I took my first class and loved it. First Tee – Monterey County has helped me a lot in my career. The coaches I had gave their best at everything and gave me values and skills I could use in my life. The least I could do is give back,” said Jose.

While coaching at First Tee – Monterey County, Jose is also studying to get his degree in accounting. Once he completes his bachelor’s degree, he will apply to get his master’s degree and become a CPA. One day, Jose hopes to do accounting for businesses all over California and take over his dad’s pallet business.

“If there’s anything I could teach my participants, it’s to be patient, be positive and always be willing to ask for help.”

Many Thanks and a Heartfelt Farewell Message from our longtime Executive Director, Kevin Long

As we end a tremendous year, we also come to the end of a tremendous era for First Tee – Fort Worth as our longtime Executive Director, Kevin Long, retires from his position with us to pursue what has always been his passion: working with young people. Through his nearly 18 years of service to First Tee – Fort Worth, we have seen amazing growth, the opening of three facilities, and countless opportunities open up to the thousands of young people in our four county service area.

Some of Kevin’s favorite sayings were “You made the mistake of asking ‘How can I help?'” and “Run through the finish line!” To commemorate, the First Tee staff created this video as a sentimental thanks for the many years of service.

We cannot thank Mr. Long enough for the work and passion he has poured into our chapter over the years and wish him the best of luck in his new position as the Head Coach of the Texas Wesleyan University Men’s Golf team! While we’ll see him in a new role, we know he will remain connected with First Tee long into the future. Best of luck in this new chapter!

A Message from Kevin Long

December 21, 2022

Dear Friends of First Tee – Fort Worth,

As most of you may have heard by now, I am stepping down as Executive Director of our chapter and have assumed the role of Head Men’s Golf Coach at Texas Wesleyan University. I will continue to work with our chapter, serving  as a consultant in 2023 while also consulting for other First Tee chapters and non-profits.  I have been honored  and privileged to lead our chapter as Executive Director for almost 17 years and in that time, have been fortunate to work with amazing staff members, board members, volunteers, donors, advocates, community partners and most importantly, thousands of young people in our community! We have created three distinct and unique facilities in the Ben Hogan Learning Centers at Rockwood and Squaw Creek as well as the Briscoe Program Location located on FWISD property. Our program has grown exponentially since we started, and we are consistently recognized as one of the top chapters in The First Tee Network. It has been both professionally and personally fulfilling to be the leader of the organization during that growth!

In all my years of youth development, I have never seen a better or more effective character education tool than the First Tee’s Life Skills Experience and Curriculum. It is research driven, constantly evolving, child focused, and activity based. I know that every young person that has been impacted by this program has been strengthened with life enhancing skills like resiliency, interpersonal communication, conflict resolution, goal setting and decision-making capability that every young person in our society needs, more now than ever as we recover from COVID. I have been driven all these years by one simple vision of providing this empowering program to as many young people as possible, including our golfers at Texas Wesleyan. In doing so, all of us, working together, have made a positive and lasting impact on our community that has a ripple effect for generations to come!

As we come up on our 20th Anniversary year as a chapter in 2023, I felt the time was right to get involved once again in working directly with young people in some fashion and return to competitive athletics. I have always considered myself a teacher and coach first and foremost and spent the first 25 years of my career doing just that. The chance to build First Tee – Fort Worth into a preeminent youth development agency was a once in a lifetime opportunity that called to me in personally meaningful ways.  I will never do anything that is more important professionally than my years at First Tee but I look forward to this new challenge of working with the young men in our golf program at Texas Wesleyan to be all that they can be, both on and off the golf course. The tradition at Texas Wesleyan is a strong one that includes seven NAIA National Titles and I look forward to continuing to raise that bar for our student-athletes and building a team culture, much like what we have done at our First Tee chapter.

I also look forward to helping our chapter to new heights in my backstage consulting role. Our new Executive Director, J.R. Holland, was our Director of Development for over 4 years from 2011-2015 and has an extensive background in fundraising, business management, operations and is also a Class A PGA Golf Professional. I know that he will do an excellent job, along with our Board of Directors and Staff, to create a compelling strategic plan and vision for the next several years, which will be a NorthStar in our journey ahead. I hope that you will join me in supporting those efforts and work with us to continue to build game changers in our community.

I wish the very best of holiday seasons to you and your loved ones. I hope you all take a  moment to be grateful for the people in our lives who enrich us and tell them how special they are. Please continue to ask, “how can I help” and always run through the finish line!

With Gratitude,

Kevin Long

Former ED – Now Chapter Consultant

First Tee – Fort Worth

A Big Hand for Hunter

We always hope that the lessons learned on the course will go far beyond the clubhouse, so it’s exciting here at First Tee – Fort Worth when we hear about participant’s who are doing just that!

Hunter Hamman, age 9, was recently awarded Student of the Month at his school in Aledo for his unwavering demonstration of integrity. Hunter has been a participant in First Tee for almost 2 years now and his family credits his interactions with the program and it’s coaches for helping reinforce such valuable attributes shared at home.

We are very proud of Hunter and encourage him to keep up the good work! Hunter is truly an example of what a game changer should be!

Congrats, Hunter!

Freeman signs with College of Saint Mary Women’s Golf Team!

Congratulations to First Tee – Fort Worth participant Katie Freeman on signing with the College of Saint Mary Women’s Golf Team in Omaha, Nebraska! Katie, a future graduate of L.D. Bell High School, has been involved with First Tee from a very young age and credits her coaches and the lifelong friends she has made at First Tee to much of her success. Along with the support of her amazing family, Katie has accomplished many great things with First Tee – Fort Worth, but she is most proud to have completed all four projects to be named a certified ACE participant, the pinnacle of achievement for First Tee participants.

Katie always comes to class and events with a fantastic attitude and her smile is contagious. She leads by example with integrity and respect at every turn, regardless of how her day is going. An active participant of the chapter, she is truly one of the best representatives of what First Tee is all about: building game changers.

We are incredibly proud of Katie and the amazing young woman she has become! We will certainly miss her when she heads off on a wonderful adventure next year, but until then we know she will finish out her senior year strong! We wish her the best in her future endeavors and look forward to keeping up with her college golf career as it begins in Fall 2023! Go Flames!

Game Changing Alumni

For over 25 years, we’ve used golf to teach lessons about life. We’ve spun the unexpected challenges on the fairway to coach kids about adversity in the everyday. It’s not just a game, its game-changing.

Our alumni are a reflection of that commitment we made to building game changers. Below are just a few of our exceptional alumni who are making a difference in the world because of the lessons learned at First Tee.

The Junior League of Fort Worth, Inc. provides tech upgrades to the Morningside Community at our Briscoe Program Location

Progress is being made at our Briscoe Elementary program location thanks to The Junior League of Fort Worth, Inc.! Check out our new gadget from Promethean that will help youth in the community learn not only the fundamentals of golf, but skills needed to be successful in life! In addition to the new Promethean panel, we were also able to purchase 20 brand new Chromebooks and a snazzy cart to store them in.

With the funding and volunteer support of The Junior League of Fort Worth, Inc. we’re making strides to provide access to the most current technologies and create a space that puts youth at the center, including a bright and colorful interior and plenty of room for activity! By Spring 2023, we’ll be able to conduct even more programs at this facility such as STEM activities, family events, community events, mentorship and leadership opportunities and more! Stay tuned for more updates!

To learn more about the Junior League of Fort Worth, their initiatives and impact, visit www.juniorleaguefw.org!

Marcus Freeman Pays it Forward

First Tee is celebrating its 25th anniversary this month, and over the years, it’s helped produce no shortage of game changers. 

One example is Marcus Freeman from First Tee – Greater Charlotte. He says the organization has helped him grow as a golfer and person. 

“Being a part of this community has helped me get through hard times. First Tee – Greater Charlotte was a safe place for me in 2020. During this time my grandfather was going through end stage pancreatic cancer and my family, like the world, was navigating COVID-19 and social distancing,” he says. 

The support he received from First Tee inspired Freeman to pay it forward. 

He completed more than 300 hours of volunteer work for First Tee in 2021. He collected more than 500 books for a First Tee book drive, and he’s a member of the chapter’s participant advisory council. Freeman has also volunteered for his swim team and tutored students in Japanese.

“An aspect of volunteer work that I enjoy is seeing the impact that giving to others can have,” he says. 

Freeman is one of 28 First Tee participants from across the country who’ll attend Innovators Forum this November in Dallas. The workshop empowers First Tee teens to develop a meaningful service project in their community focused on education, health or sustainability. Eight participants will be awarded scholarships totaling $32,000 after the event.

A junior at Palisades High School, Freeman is an accomplished violinist, and he won a medal for performing Japanese poems in 2019. Freeman aspires to study sports science in college. “I enjoy learning more about physical fitness and how the body works,” he says. Freeman spends his free time researching training tips and injury recovery. 

As he progresses as an athlete and student, Freeman says he’ll continue to use the lessons and qualities he’s learned at First Tee, including confidence. 

“When I first joined the program, I was a little shy when meeting new coaches, parents and other players. I spent time observing the instructors and how they interacted with all the different people coming and going. I saw them shake hands, make eye contact, smile and speak confidently,” he says.  

“I knew I wanted those skills as well. I pushed myself out of my comfort zone, and I started to apply what I observed to my own social skills. I practiced a strong handshake. I introduced myself to people I didn’t know, and I have met many interesting people, like professional golfer Davis Love III, all because I have improved in sharing my personality.” 

Learn more about Innovators Forum

Alumna Hannah Rens Reaches for the Stars

Lots of kids aspire to become astronauts but few go on to build careers in space exploration. That hasn’t stopped Hannah Rens from chasing her dreams into orbit. 

The 24-year-old is a systems engineer for Boeing Space and Launch, working on Boeing’s Starliner, a commercial crew and cargo vehicle that will be transporting NASA astronauts to the international space station.  

“My ultimate career goal is to be chief engineer of a permanent human habitat on the moon,” says Rens, a former participant at First Tee – Siouxland and First Tee volunteer. “To achieve that goal, I need to develop advanced business skills, gain industry experience and further my engineering technical education.” 

That’s why she’s attending the First Tee Alumni Summit presented by Gallagher this November in Dallas. The event provides an opportunity for selected alumni to advance their career by building new skills while reconnecting with fellow alumni and chapter leaders. 

“I’m looking to learn more about working in a rapidly evolving industry, startups and founding your own business, and how to develop an effective personal brand,” she says. 

Rens says her nine years in First Tee helped shape her future. “It provided me with a structured path to improving my golf game, peer and trusted mentors, and interpersonal and professional skills that have been essential in achieving my goals,” she says. 

While in First Tee, she was selected to attend the Leaders and Entrepreneurs Forum at Disney World. “Getting to meet other students from across the U.S. while listening and working with successful business owners and entrepreneurs was unlike any other experience I had in high school,” she says. “The business principles and goals I learned have stayed with me.” 

A graduate of the University of Texas at Austin, Rens began her career with internships focused on aircraft maintenance and repair. As Starliner prepares to expand its service to additional sites in Earth’s orbit, Rens works on vehicle life span and sustainment. Ultimately, Starliner will become one of the first spacecraft with turnaround times closer to traditional air traffic. Talk about a Game Changer. 

Rens now serves as a mentor for high school and college students who want careers in the space industry, and she’s enrolled in an astronautical engineering master’s program at the University of Southern California focusing on human spaceflight. 

Rens still golfs, and she’s a certified open water and dry suit SCUBA diver. Learn more about the accomplishments of First Tee alumni